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Friday, October 12, 2012

Is Watching Porn Grounds For Divorce?

Is porn watching by your partner grounds for divorce? It is for only 1/3 of Huff Post readers! (@HuffPostDivorce) ~ And many of them actually think porn watching in a relationship is GOOD for it! So sad!

Check out the 20 responses at the link, which include a lot of disturbing pro-porn ones, and then please share your own responses and thoughts here. Thanks!

[Huffington Post] On Monday, Gulf News reported that an Emirati woman divorced her husband after she caught him watching porn on his laptop.

While this may not be the strangest grounds for divorce we’ve ever heard, it’s certainly a bit unusual. We asked our followers on Facebook and Twitter to weigh in on whether or not watching porn is reason enough to split.

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HuffPost reader response #1 out of 20:

“not at all….I think it helps keeping the relationship fresh for new and innovative ideas when it come to the bedroom….”

Yikes! “New and innovative ideas…”!! It’s scary to even think what THAT means, if those “ideas” come from typical misogynist, degrading, brutal and unsafe pornography, such as these representative samples below from this week’s best-sellers on the Adult Video News sales charts: (WARNING! Graphic, disturbing, and likely triggering content ahead!)

“Gangbanged 4″, “My Anal Schoolgirl’, “Drill My Hole 3,” “Mother Daughter Exchange Club 22,” “Submit Your Bitch 4,” “Really Tight Teenage Assholes,” and “My Wife Caught Me Assf*cking Her Mother.”

Lovely! Perfectly healthy material to supply “new and innovative ideas” to help “keep a relationship fresh,” don’t you think?? What could possibly go wrong in a relationship with THOSE “helpful guides” to follow?? 0_0!!

ARTICLE LINK: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/divorce-and-porn-is-watch_n_1930017.html

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Books about the harms of pornography

Pornified: How Pornography is Damaging Our Lives, Our Relationships and Our Families, by Pamela Paul. (Buy it here at Amazon.com.)
(Note: The author has stated that she regrets the errors on pg. 259 in the sentence beginning with “Meanwhile, women on the Left…”. The sentence and the points made in it are inaccurate but corrections were not able to be made for the paperback edition.)

Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture, by Ariel Levy. (Buy it here at Amazon.com.)

Pornography: Driving the Demand in International Sex Trafficking, by Captive Daughters Media. (Buy it here at Amazon.com, or at Xlibris here. Table of contents here. Full text of Introduction by David Guinn here.)

The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help, by Jackson Katz. (Buy it here at Amazon.com)

Getting Off: Pornography and the End of Masculinity, by Robert Jensen. (Buy it here at Amazon.com.)

Not for Sale: Feminists Resisting Prostitution and Pornography, edited by Rebecca Whisnant and Christine Stark. (Buy it at Amazon.com here or at Spinifex press here.)

How to Make Love Like A Porn Star: A Cautionary Tale, by Jenna Jameson. (Buy it here at Amazon.com: ) It includes much valuable information about the pornography industry that makes it clear how harmful it is.

Against Pornography: The Evidence of Harm, by Diana Russell (Buy it at Amazon.com here or at Diana Russell's website here. Book info here.)

Dangerous Relationships: Pornography, Misogyny and Rape, by Diana Russell. (Buy it at Amazon.com here, or at Diana Russell's website here. Book info here.)

Pornography: The Production and Consumption of Inequality, by Gail Dines, Robert Jensen, and Ann Russo. (Buy it at Amazon.com here.)

Life and Death: Unapologetic Writings on the Continuing War Against Women, by Andrea Dworkin. (Buy it at Amazon.com here.)

"Making Violence Sexy: Feminist Views on Pornography", edited by Diana Russell. (Buy it at Amazon.com here or at Diana Russell's website here. Book info here.)

"Pornography in America: A Reference Handbook", by Joseph W. Slade. Buy it at Amazon.com here.

Traci Lords On the Oprah Show:

Traci grew up in an abusive home and was raped at the age of 10 by a neighborhood boy. Her career in the sex industry began when she ran away from home at age 15. She obtained a fake I.D. "mainly to get a job…as a waitress, just some sort of employment," Traci says. "I was really desperate."
When she answered an ad for a figure model in a local newspaper, she was quickly swept up into the porn industry. Nude modeling led to a centerfold in Penthouse, which quickly led to hard-core pornography.
"I had stars in my eyes," she recalls. "And I thought, 'Okay…maybe this is a way of having the attention and having everybody like me."
Battling her "self-loathing," Traci says turning to the porn industry was her way of getting attention.
"It wasn't about sex… it was about numbing out, finding a place to put that anger. I was very aggressive…it was vengeance… it was about attention."

Oprah Show: A Porn Star Gone Straight: The Traci Lords Story.

Family and Children Oriented Anti-Porn Internet Resources:

WhatAParentCanDo.com

CP80.org
(Internet Channel Initiative)

Enough is Enough

ProtectKids.com

Morality in Media

National Law Center

Victims of Pornography

Legal Information Regarding Pornography

Canadians Against Sexual Exploitation

United States Department of Justice Section on Pornography

Citizens Against Pornography

Maryland Coalition Against Pornography

Anti-Porn Network

The Social Costs of Pornography (2008 Princeton University project. 10 papers by different professionals. See right sidebar.)

Why the Government Should Care About Pornography. (2005 U.S. Senate Hearing) Please click on the following links of names for testimony by each individual: Pamela Paul, (author of "Pornified"),
Ms. Leslie Harris, (Executive Director Center for Democracy and Technology), Mr. Rodney Smolla, (Dean, University of Richmond School of Law), Richard Whidden, (Executive Director and Senior Council National Law Center for Children and Families), and Senator Orrin Hatch.

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